Pregnancyis a true journey, filled withjoy,doubts, andsometimesapprehension. As the bigdayapproaches,manywomen (andcouples!)askthemselves:shouldwewrite abirthplan? And ifso, how dowe go aboutit? 

Inthis article,we’llexplainwhat abirth planis,whyit canbeuseful, andmostimportantly, how tocreate onesimply andeffectively. 

 

1. Whatis abirthplan? 

2. Whywrite abirthplan? 

3. How to writeyourbirthplan? 

4. Sometips 

5. Birth plan example 

 

1.Whatis abirthplan? 

Abirth planis a documentwhereyou can expressyourwishes,needs, andpreferencesregardingyourlabor anddelivery.It’s not a strict “contract” butrather atool for open communicationbetweenyou and themedicalteam. 

 

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2.Whywrite abirthplan? 

Creating abirth planallowsyou totake an activerole inyourchildbirth byclearlyexpressingyour expectations,whichhelpsyoupreparementally andemotionally. Italsofosters good communicationwithyourmedicalteam andbuilds trust. The planletsyouclarifywhat’s important toyou,such as thedesiredatmosphere,labor positions, pain managementpreferences, oryourpartner’spresence.Lastly,it’s apeacefulway toanticipateunexpectedevents byconsidering alternatives (e.g., “if anepiduralisneeded,then…”),soyou’re notcaught offguard on the bigday. 

 

3. How towriteyourbirthplan? 

Noneed towrite anovel! Abirth plan can fit on one pageandshouldremain simple,clear, andkind intone.Here are the pointsyoumaywant toinclude: 

(You’llfind aclearexamplebelowyou can use oradapt.) 

 

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1. Basic Information 

  • Yourname,estimated due date,partner'sname 

  • Planned place ofbirth 

2.Atmosphere andEnvironment 

  • Dimmedlighting, soft music, silence 

  • Number of peoplepresent (partner,doula, etc.) 

3. LaborPreferences 

  • Preferred positionsduringlabor 

  • Natural pain reliefmethods (warm bath,birthingball,hypnosis...) 

4. Pain Management 

  • Epidural:desired? Notdesired? 

  • Otheroptions: acupuncture, massage,breathing techniques... 

5. Birth 

  • Preferred positions for pushing 

  • Desire toavoidepisiotomy if possible 

  • Babyplaced onchestimmediatelyafterbirth 

6. Baby Care 

  • Immediate skin-to-skin contact 

  • Delayedcordclamping 

  • Breastfeeding orbottle-feeding 

 

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4.Some Tips 

Whenwritingyourbirth plan,remember tostay flexible. This documentis not set in stone andshouldadapt tounexpected situations. Use positive and openlanguage to expressyourwisheskindly. Don’tforget toshareitduringyour finalprenatalappointmentsoyou candiscussitcalmlywith themedicalteam. 

 

5.Sample Birth Plan 

Here’s a simple andclearbirth plantemplateyou canfill out. You can copy/pasteit,printit, andcompleteit by hand or onyour computer—whateversuitsyou best. 

 

Birth Plan – [Your First and Last Name] 

Estimated duedate: 

Place ofbirth: 

Preferredperson(s)present: 

Primaryhealthcareproviders: 

 

1.Atmosphere andEnvironment 

Iwould like a settingthatis: 

Calm anddimly lit 

With soft music (playlist) 

☐ Quiet or minimal conversationduring contractions 

Other: _________________________ 

 

2.During Labor 

Preferredpositions: 

☐ Freedom to move 

Upright positions (birthingball,squatting, hands andknees...) 

☐ Warm bath orshower if possible 

Other: _________________________ 

Painmanagement: 

Withoutepidural if possible 

Withepidural 

☐ Open to all options 

☐ Naturaltechniques:breathing,hypnosis, massage... 

 

3. Birth 

Pushing: 

☐ Freedom tochoose position 

☐ Verbal guidancepreferred 

Prefer to followmy instincts 

Interventions: 

I’d like toavoid anepisiotomy if possible 

☐ Consent to forceps or vacuum ifnecessary (tobediscussed) 

Mypartnerwould like tocut thecord 

 

4. JustAfter Birth 

Skin-to-skincontact: 

Immediate, if possible 

Withpartner ifI’munable 

Umbilicalcord: 

Delayedclamping 

Immediateclamping 

☐ Nopreference 

Baby’s firstcare: 

Delayeduntilafter skin-to-skin 

Performed inmypresence 

Feeding: 

☐ Exclusivebreastfeeding 

Bottle-feeding 

☐ Tobedecidedbased on the situation 

 

AdditionalComments orSpecialWishes: 

(Youmaywritehereanything important toyou: culturalpreferences,medicalhistory,fears,symbolicwishes, etc.) 

 

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InSummary 

Abirth planis avaluabletool to helpyoufeel more confident andsupported on the bigday. Itallowsyou to expressyour vision ofchildbirthwhileremaining open to the reality of the moment. 

Take time towriteitwithyourpartner, anddon’thesitate todiscussitwithyourmidwifeit’salso awonderfulopportunity toreconnectwithwhattrulymatters toyou. 

 

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